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Sunday, August 21, 2005

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.

You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.

You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.

When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.

You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.

You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.

When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.

You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.

You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old she drove you allday,from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.

You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.

You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.

You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.

You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.

You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.

You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.

You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.

You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus carried your bags.

You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.

You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.

You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.

You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.

You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the future.

You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how
deeply she loved you.

You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.

You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.

You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.

You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART.

If you love your mom, repost this bulletin.

:: posted by ToMatO | 11:27 AM |

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Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Xueting suggest me why don't i write about school life here sO she can know how im doing and my mood... Haha. Ok,Thanks Xue for your caring!! =]
WelL,honestly be'cOz nth to say so i seldom mention it. In sch,i either sleep in classroom or sit alone playing computer thinking of my own thing all day. I would like to think of my parent,how hard they bring up me from the first Of my mum pregrented and what they gained from me and what they want to be given; think Of my histroy,hOw innocent and happy i was,didn't know anything,trusted everyone and would like to make everyone as friends; miss my hometown,my friends and even many passers-by in my whole life's journey,think of how about them now?? If without me born in this world,how abt my parent's fate now? WilL it be different? Will they become happier or richer or be freedom? And,sometimes i will worry about my future but it's quite seldom because it's a fantasy for me.Too far to think. Oh,YUP,HAHA,See,there are many things need me to arrange clearly. That's why i would walk far away from group and leave alone.
In my opinon,they don't have responsible to know my bz. That's too troublesOme. They won't have interesting in knowing it. Coz they no interested to know so i nvr tell them as welL. Since nvr telL them,so i seldom talk to them toO. Um,that's aLl.

i don't know what my classmate thinking abt me. Sometimes it makes me sad. But these weeks i finally realise there's no choice, i need freedom i juz must learn to don't care other's thought abt me anymOre. As long as I have my parent,my best friend and myself care me, Juz enough!!! Definatelly enouff! =D lala.

im enough nw!! =D

:: posted by ToMatO | 3:48 PM |

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Sunday, August 14, 2005

Link horoscope test from Jas. Hehe. Search For Karen,ting,xue,Qi and mine. Hehe. EnjOy it!!

Mine:
You have unusually strong security needs that are likely to find expression in a healthy drive for financial well-being and domestic safety. You can be ferociously defensive when your home or those you love are threatened, and this makes you a good provider who is sensitive to family concerns. Periodically, you may have to restructure your entire lifestyle, and these experiences are what shape your need for stability.
In your personal relationships, you have a very sympathetic and understanding demeanor. You care for the underdog, and may find that many of your friends come to you for advice because you listen so well. In the home, you are likely to be the one who takes charge, since you have very strong ideas about the way things should be. In general, you get along best with Cancerians, Scorpios, Capricorns, and Pisceans.
In your professional life, you may prefer to work out of your home, or in an office situation that approximates a homey atmosphere. Your co-workers may become like family members, or your family members may help you with your career or business. You may be tuned into women's rights in the workplace, and could greatly benefit by securing a place for more women. You may also prosper in the food or health industries.

Qi's:
Throughout your lifetime, your thinking is stimulated by three of the "heavies": Jupiter, which rules society, orthodox religion, and law; Uranus, which represents originality, direct inspiration, and radical breaks with tradition; and third, the mysterious planet Neptune, which rules spirituality, mysticism, metaphysics, and transcendence. You may well find yourself pondering questions of theology and the meaning of life professionally.
You are likely to show a scholarly disposition, with an interest in and talent for languages, cultures, and world religions. If you don't personally get your hands on the Dead Sea Scrolls, you may still enjoy the questions they raised when they were discovered. You may also turn your remarkable intellect toward more practical considerations. Your greatest challenge is to keep your mind open as it questions, so that your inquiries don't become inquisitions. Your greatest strength is the wisdom to know the difference.
An exciting Leo may light your fire, while an Aries can help you zero in on concrete goals and ambitions.

Karen:
Some folks may call you a hopeless dreamer, but you prefer to think of yourself as a hopeful one. Although you may be frequently disappointed by opportunists and cynics, this doesn't stop you from thinking the best of everyone. When the human race lets you down, you lavish affection on your pets Animals hold a special place in your heart, as do small children. Perhaps you identify with their vulnerability.
You need friends who will form a protective barrier around you. Worldly Taureans, Cancerians, Virgos, and Capricorns can keep the wolves at bay. Your ideal romantic partner will bolster your ego. Steer clear of critical types who seek to correct your mistakes. You may be hard enough on yourself already!
Given your nurturing personality, you'd be wise to enter one of the caring professions. You'd make an excellent nurse, veterinarian, or hospital aide. Being a kindergarten teacher might also appeal to you, although you'd be reluctant to administer discipline. At some point in your life, you may prefer working independently. Solitary work like writing, photography, or film editing could provide the freedom you desire.
Because you soak up the atmosphere like a sponge, you need to be careful about the company you keep. In the event pessimists do overwhelm you, you might try going off on your own. Nature walks, prayer, and meditation can put you back in touch with your spiritual essence, which is as pure as a mountain stream.
Tender and vulnerable, your greatest challenge is to stick up for yourself. Although it's nice to have friends to run interference for you, it's important to be your own advocate. As you get older, it will be easier for you to speak on your own behalf. Your biggest strength is your relentless optimism. Use it as a shield against those who seek to dim your sunny smile.
You firmly believe that in order to understand the present, you have to know the past. History
books probably crowd your library, although you may enjoy biographies too. Feeling linked to your ancestors gives you a sense of power. There's a
good chance you can trace your family back for several generations. You're probably quite patriotic, too..
This interest in the past may influence your career choice. You would make an excellent genealogist, archivist, or historian. A love of children could take you in another direction- family planning, obstetrics, or midwifery may be fields worth exploring. Whether it's preserving old traditions or bringing new life into the world, you want to feel that life has a sense of continuity. You could never hold down a dead-end job for very long.

Xiaoting's: (14/July)

Generous people comprise the greater part of your social circle. That's why there are so many Geminis, Librans, Sagittarians, and Pisceans among your acquaintances. In romance, you want a partner who is romantic and spontaneous. You want to be swept off your feet, not under the carpet!
The greatest challenge you face, 1988 Cancer, is to live in the moment. Pining over the good old days can distract you from all the wonderful things that are unfolding right in front of you. Your biggest strength is your ability to make and keep friends. Companionship will rarely elude you.
Friends play a big role in your life. You enjoy folks who are creative and well-heeled. "Slumming it" holds little appeal for you. However, you never hesitate to help a pal who has fallen on hard times. There's a good chance that you are a member of at least one humanitarian group. You firmly believe that everybody has a right to be fed, clothed, and housed, regardless of economic straits. Performing charity work is your way of giving thanks for the abundance you enjoy on a daily basis.

(8/August)
You do everything on a grand scale and seek to have at least two of everything. Perhaps you had a financially insecure childhood. Maybe flamboyant relatives overshadowed you. Whatever the circumstances of your upbringing, they prompted you to become an outstanding success. Fighting your way to the top comes naturally to you.
Fun-loving people with a dash of flair have a special hold on your heart. Ariens, Leos, Librans, and Sagittarians have a lot in common with you. As far as your love life is concerned, you need a partner who isn't afraid to take risks. With the support of a loving mate, you can accomplish anything you desire. You need to have someone in your corner.
You have a strong artistic streak that could net you a fortune. Selling handmade items is a good possibility for you, as you like to put a personal stamp on everything you do. There's a good chance you will integrate nature's bounty into your work. Running a health food store, flower shop, or gardening service are among the ways you may make a living. You will probably market your wares to high-end clients; an air of exclusivity characterizes everything you do. Eventually, you could even launch your own line of luxury products.
Romance is important to you, although work can get in the way of your love life. At some point, you may have to choose between your personal and public lives. You may decide to take time off to raise your children. Such a decision could add an exciting new dimension to your life. Caring for young people fills a deep need within you. Whether you realize it or not, you're a very nurturing person.
Your greatest challenge is to scale back work for the sake of love. Although you are capable of great things on the career front, it's more important to build up a loyal circle of friends. Your biggest strength is your caring heart. If you obey its instincts, you'll never go wrong.

(Coz u have two birthday date, so im not sure which one is the best,so search both. No choice bt u spend some time read both lo.haha)

Xue:
You do everything on a grand scale and seek to have at least two of everything. Perhaps you had a financially insecure childhood. Maybe flamboyant relatives overshadowed you. Whatever the circumstances of your upbringing, they prompted you to become an outstanding success. Fighting your way to the top comes naturally to you.
Fun-loving people with a dash of flair have a special hold on your heart. Ariens, Leos, Librans, and Sagittarians have a lot in common with you. As far as your love life is concerned, you need a partner who isn't afraid to take risks. With the support of a loving mate, you can accomplish anything you desire. You need to have someone in your corner.
You have a strong artistic streak that could net you a fortune. Selling handmade items is a good possibility for you, as you like to put a personal stamp on everything you do. There's a good chance you will integrate nature's bounty into your work. Running a health food store, flower shop, or gardening service are among the ways you may make a living. You will probably market your wares to high-end clients; an air of exclusivity characterizes everything you do. Eventually, you could even launch your own line of luxury products.
Romance is important to you, although work can get in the way of your love life. At some point, you may have to choose between your personal and public lives. You may decide to take time off to raise your children. Such a decision could add an exciting new dimension to your life. Caring for young people fills a deep need within you. Whether you realize it or not, you're a very nurturing person.
Your greatest challenge is to scale back work for the sake of love. Although you are capable of great things on the career front, it's more important to build up a loyal circle of friends. Your biggest strength is your caring heart. If you obey its instincts, you'll never go wrong.


Since Jas and Mc have post their's already,so i didn't search for both Of u. Pls Don't mind. haha. How abt u think? Quite true ma? haha.

:: posted by ToMatO | 9:13 PM |

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Tuesday, August 09, 2005

Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = pregnancy
Dumb man + smart woman = affair
Dumb man + dumb woman = marriage
Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

Nonsence.......= S.. hehe

:: posted by ToMatO | 5:59 PM |

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Saturday, August 06, 2005

+"" Friends r like pieces Of puzzle. If U lose one,t will never be complete again. Just want you to know,wei,u're One Of the pieces,i can't afford to lost! Miss yA!! ---MiaoHua. 6-Aug-2005 13:22:56
+"" Just wanna say u ar e frend which i cherish and don't wan 2 give Up...I will be happy if u are happy... I wil be always there 4 you if u have trouble... Bt u have 2 be my frenz 4 eveR!!! Nite. Miss ya! ---Ting. 1-Aug-2005 22:56:01
+"" U will be my close friend 4 ever. 6-Aug-2005
+"" FRendship doesn't nid everyday conversation,doesn't always nid togetherness...aZ long as it is kept in the heart...True Frenz never grow apart...Gd night! ---Ting. 12-July-2005. 22:34:58
+"" Morning. A cute message 4 a cute person From a cute sender. Have a nice day. ---Jas. 19-July-2005
+"" AdO!! I fell from bed trying to reach my phone juz 2 say gooD nite...sWit drimz! ---Ting. 18-July-2005. 22:41:56
+"" Days May pass&u wun hear from me but always remember that each day & night,clear or cloudy, i wud always wish tat you would be safe & happy foreveR... Nitez! =) ---Meichen. 21-July-2005 22:11:17
+"" Time might lead me2 no where & fate might break me into pieces but i will always B thakful that oce in my life's journey,i got you ('',)Gd morning! wei... ---Miaohua. 4-Aug-2005 00:57:44
+"" They say, as long as at least 1 person cares 4 you,Life isn't a waste. So when thingz go terribly wrong N u feel like giveing up pls remember,i care.. =) Gdmorning. ---Ting. 13-July-2005 06:53:25
+"" Flower 4 my Lovely friend i seldom see but often miss! Take care N keep in touch! ---Hua. 4-Aug-2005 10:33:06
+"" There will be no goodbyes For us! Just a Promise that...no matter what happens,we will be friend forever! ---Jas. 4-Aug-2005 22:07:22
+"" A simple text means i care enough to flex my thumb search your name wait for "Message sent" Then think of you and smile as i say "gd nitez" ('',) Ting. 4-Aug-2005. 22:05:20
+"" (I+U)=happy.(I+U)-U=lonely.Hope U could see how much I miss you! take care lOadzZ!
+"" A happy morning starts from a pleasant greeting 2 someone who deserve e best of everything that a new day may bring... Gd morning. =MuaCKz=

If i forget write down some msgs u sent me, pls remind me...IM SORRY FOR MISSING THEM. =] HEHE.
And thanks My friends sO !!! Love Ya!!

:: posted by ToMatO | 4:59 PM |

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Happiness and unhappiness are opposite sides of a judgement about your situation.
"+ If you judge your situation as bad for you, that's unhappiness.
"+ If you judge a situation as good for you, that's happiness.

:: posted by ToMatO | 4:27 PM |

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Wednesday, August 03, 2005

Didn't listen carefully what did Miss vivian say so today waked up early went school for PE(SW),den found no classmate in view,after realised sth wrong,called Janice asked whether Today no SW,she replied me yes,today no lesson in the morning till at 3pm...hahhaha........i so laMe...haha...

Since Ting's birthday coming soOn so went Orchard looking for her present. But it was stilL early for shopping malL,there are some stores haven't open yet...so i looked for a seat and sat there thinking what thing she would like to be given while drinking Fruit Juice...feeling so peacefuL..haha...

Saw many presents which suitable for ting,so lovly and cute makes me wanna bring them all home...LoVe,lOvE,LoVE!!Guess she sure will love them,coz i love them!!! hahaha... I am thinking whether i can buy them first as Jas and Mc'S presents,so that i can see them everyday till they're birthday coming. haha...

Nw at home going to back sch soon,and Determine after school go Parkway or Orchard again,afte select,i've made my mind what i need to buy.... haha...xixi..Hope there are some nice momeries r given from me in her life! hahah...Jia you jia you jia you!!! Add OiL!!

Have a nice day!

:: posted by ToMatO | 2:29 PM |

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Tuesday, August 02, 2005


I WANT TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS,WITH YOU,MY DEAREST FRIEND !

:: posted by ToMatO | 5:02 PM |

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Monday, August 01, 2005

Shit!!!

:: posted by ToMatO | 4:51 PM |

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